Hello Amanda,I'm sorry you've lost the person you love. Nothing is worse than that feeling of being separated, even when you know he's still with you and he will be more clearly with you later.
You asked, "are partners reunited in the loving relationship and with the loving emotions that only two people in love can have?"
Everything I know from ADCs, IADCs, and mediums is that you are never separate from your loved one, but when you drop off the body too, you'll be able to communicate more easily. You will be able to walk with and communicate with your loved one as you did when he was in a body in the physical realm.
As to whether you will have a special or dedicated relationship, everything we know tells us you will have the relationship you want to have at that time. Don't worry about that relationship now. You need to continue with your life. When he was alive, he had his own interests and you didn't require him to do things only with you; he didn't require that of you. Now you have very different interests as well. It's just that you can't know his preoccupations fully because he's in a different country from you and you have no phone line. However, know that in spite of the separation, your love is as strong as ever. Actually, it's stronger because the physical realm impediments are gone.
Your special relationship with him that you had in the past is now enfolded into the album that is your lives together. It will always be there for you to leaf through the memories. It will never diminish. However, you need to continue your life in bliss and purpose. New things will happen in your life. No one could replace your partner. But new relationships at every level add to your life, and he will enjoy your joy. Your relationship with him continues.
You asked, "Will the one that has gone before be there patiently waiting for the other? The only comfort I receive is in the hope and notion that I will be with him again one day."
Oh, yes, he'll be there to greet you. But don't limit your life together to the experiences of the physical realm. Your experiences together will be more wonderful than you can ever imagine, and richer. Don't try to limit them to what you might want in the physical realm right now. The two of you have greater things in store for you.
But you do have a new relationship now. Enjoy the new relationship as much as you can. Look back in quiet moments in love and warmth, but don't try to live today in those memories; the past is a wonderful memory now. Look forward to what you will have. He's in your future now.
You asked, "What are the qualifications required to be trained in the EMDR process to induce after-death communications."
You must have EMDR training from the EMDR Institute or one of the schools now training in EMDR. With that training, you are eligible for IADC training.
You asked, "A last note, I live in Queensland Australia and was wondering if you are aware of any qualified persons trained or who perform IADC's in my country? "
No, there are none. You'll have to be the first.
Craig
