Hello Claudia,

As you should know, I speak only from the data I have available. Anything I say about the afterlife is based on statements from people who are now living there or on descriptions from mediums who hear from people now living there. And what I hear has to be repeated often by others for me to accept it as a description of the afterlife.

The purpose of my book is to bring the abundant research we now have about our nature as eternal individuals having a physical experience to the general public. Most people simply don't know about what we know for certainty is true based on valid, verified evidence. While I know reincarnation is a fact, it would have required more text and wouldn't have brought the evidence about our eternal natures to people as strongly. So I decided to leave it out.

That having been said, here's what we hear from those who are now in the afterlife about our reunions with them and reincarnation. There is always a glorious reunion and the family members are there. I've never heard of one case where they say, "Oh, you can't have a reunion with George because he's reincarnated." That may mean people don't reincarnate for a while, perhaps until all their loved ones have crossed over and their descendents still on Earth don't remember them or care about them, or it could be that the person they were while on the Earth plane is still there in the afterlife and another part of their larger soul (the oversoul or higher self or some other such image of the larger self that goes through eternity learning lessons) is now incarnating and serving humankind or learning lessons on another plane. One regression therapist described reincarnation in this way. We all have a full deck of cards that is our Higher Self, but when we incarnate, we play only a hand of a few of the cards. In other words, the learning and growth contributes to the whole, larger self that is eternal, but the individuals we are when we incarnate are but a part of that whole self. That would mean those we love on Earth, when they cross over, are still the individual parts of that larger self and we live with them on the next plane.

Of the two explanations, I think, based on what I've heard in séances and recordings of people speaking from the afterlife, that they don't reincarnate until all their loved ones have left the Earth plane and they've been reunited. After all, we have an eternity to reincarnate and either serve humankind or learn lessons. We don't have to do it within a few years or even within a few centuries.

As to your reunion with your daddy, every description of the reunions I've heard or read about has assured us that those we love are there, waiting for us. Nobody is ever absent.

You asked,
If I forget about him, about our live together, our experiences, when I reincarnate what’s the meaning of reincarnate? I don’t want to forget about my family, my friends, I want to remember all of them and love them forever.

No one makes a person reincarnate. And incarnation can be on any plane or sphere, not just the Earth plane or sphere. Everyone chooses for himself or herself. As far as whether you forget those you love when you reincarnate on the Earth plane, you never forget them permanently. But there may come a time after you've lived together in the afterlife when you decide to learn more. It's the same as on the Earth plane when you'd like to go to school, and it's in another country. Or you decide you'd like to do missionary work to help people on another continent. You decide whether to go to school or do missionary work, and on the next planes of life, you will decide if you want to reincarnate to learn lessons or help people. And your loved ones will be happy for you to go to school or help others. You'll hug and kiss and get on the plane to go, perhaps with some sadness at being separated for a while. But everyone will know you'll be back after school is finished or you've accomplished your mission of helping people. You'll be back. So it's a sad time to be separated, but a joyous time of looking toward your future. But you're choosing to do it.

Then, when you return, you'll have new experiences to share with your loved ones. Then you can choose to live with them again for a long time if you wish.

More importantly, right now, you have no idea what you'll be like in a century or a millennium. Just know you never will have to do something against your will. All the statements by those on the next planes of life testify to that. And you'll be with those you love. They won't be absent. You don't need to worry about that.

Love and peace, Craig